
Feeling a little overwhelmed by the thought of transitioning from relaxed to natural hair? You’re not alone. Many of us have stood right where you are, trying to imagine embracing a wholly different look and feel. Perhaps it was the allure of long, flowing locks that first drew you to relaxing your hair, or maybe it was just the norm. Whatever the reason, you’re here now, and that’s awesome! It’s all about committing to the journey.
Transitioning back to natural hair is not just a trend; it’s a movement back to embracing natural beauty and textures—thanks to the inspiring Natural Hair Movement. We’re going to walk through this process together, step by step, stopping to chat about what makes it all a bit easier as you let go of relaxed techniques and say hello to those vibrant curls or springy afros. Let’s get right into it!
Understanding Your Hair’s New Chapter
First things first: You don’t have to go through drastic measures like the big chop unless you really want to. Both approaches work—we’ll discuss a more gradual method, which many find less intimidating. Patience is your new best friend, though. As you let your relaxed hair give way to natural growth, you’ll get to know your hair texture like never before.
Why Make the Transition?
For some, it’s about healthier hair with fewer chemicals. For others, it’s about embracing identity or following a more natural lifestyle. Both of these are fantastic reasons! Plus, transitioning gives your hair a fresh start. Let’s dispel the myth right now: Managing natural hair doesn’t have to be harder. Different? Sure. Impossible? Not at all.
Step 1: Embrace the Trim
Trust me on this one—commit to regular trims. You’re slowly letting go of your relaxed ends, and trimming helps reduce breakage. Every six to eight weeks should do the trick. This keeps those split ends at bay and makes styling easier. Plus, it’s amazing what a good haircut can do for your mood!

Step 2: Moisture is Everything
Dry hair is unhappy hair, and let me emphasize: Your transitioning hair *will* need moisture. Stock up on a good leave-in conditioner and natural oils like coconut or shea butter. They not only lock in moisture but also provide a fabulous shine. Try incorporating a deep conditioning treatment every couple of weeks. It’s like a spa day, but more productive, because your hair comes away feeling joyous.
The Daily Routine
Incorporate a nightly routine that involves moisturizing your hair, then sealing it with an oil. These rituals are not time-consuming and create an opportunity for a little self-care winding down in the evening. Can’t beat that, can you?
Step 3: Protective Styles for The Win
Protective styles can be a game-changer. Think braids, twists, buns, or even wigs. They shield your locks from damage, and bonus—they reduce styling time in the morning. This step is particularly helpful during those awkward phases when your hair isn’t quite natural and isn’t quite relaxed.
Styling Ideas
- Twist-outs and Braid-outs: These styles are great overnight options that define curls while keeping your hair protected.
- Bantu Knots: Not only are they stylish, but they keep your curls defined and safe.
- Wigs and Weaves: Great options if versatility and protection are your end goals. Just remember, your hair still needs TLC under there.
Step 4: Detangling – Gently Does It

Nobody enjoys the tug-of-war battle with a hairbrush. A wide-tooth comb and a lot of patience will become essential as your best tools especially after washing. Always detangle from the ends toward the roots, and, if possible, tackle it when your hair is wet. It sounds like common sense, but it’s a game changer.
Step 5: Understand Different Textures and Products
Not all products you used when your hair was relaxed will work for your transitioning tresses. This is an exciting chance to explore. Many brands cater specifically to natural hair. When selecting products, consider your hair’s porosity, thickness, and curl type. It sounds scientific, but it’s pretty straightforward and makes a big difference.
- Low Porosity Hair: Choose lightweight, water-based products.
- High Porosity Hair: Go for heavy creams and butters.
Exploring Curl Types
Your natural curls may range from waves to kinky coils. This diversity impacts the kind of products and styles that will work for you and may evolve as your natural hair becomes more pronounced. Let this exploration become part of the enjoyable journey rather than something to stress over.
Step 6: Nutrition and Supplements
A bit unexpectedly, what you consume can also impact your hair’s health significantly. A diet rich in vitamins and high in Omega-3 fatty acids encourages healthy hair. Fish, nuts, and green leafy veggies should be your go-to here. If you’re looking at supplements, biotin or collagen are popular choices that boost hair health.

Step 7: Handling Setbacks
Here’s the reality check. Some days, your hair might feel rebellious. Styles might not come out as planned. You might even consider throwing in the towel on this whole transitioning gig. On those days, remind yourself why you started and give your hair some grace. Every path has its ups and downs. Celebrate the little victories, like mastering a new style or seeing the first signs of defined curls without relaxed tips.
Common Mistakes to Avoid
- Overprocessing: Resist the urge to use heat frequently. It’s tempting for immediate results, but could hinder long-term progress.
- Skipping Humidity Checks: Weather impacts hair, especially as the climate changes. Develop an action plan on humid days (up-dos can save lives!).
- Ignoring Changes in Hair Texture: Be open and adaptive. Customize your game plan and adjust expectations as your hair grows.
Conclusion
Transitioning from relaxed to natural hair is much more than a change in style; it’s like forging a path toward appreciating something entirely yours. It’s about rediscovering those unique curls, practicing patience, and maybe even learning about yourself along the way. Jump into the community, listen to others’ experiences, and don’t hesitate to find what resonates and works best for you. Remember, this journey is deeply personal—there is no one-size-fits-all roadmap.
If you’re ready to embrace this change, get cozy with those conditioners and enjoy this beautiful, new chapter. Your natural, healthy, and distinctive flair awaits on the other side; keep pushing forward because it will be so worth it.
Frequently Asked Questions
How Long Does it Take to Transition to Natural Hair?
The duration of transitioning to natural hair varies based on the length of your hair and your desired length before cutting off the relaxed ends. On average, hair grows 1/2″ per month, so if you want 10 inches of natural hair, you would need to transition for about 20 months. Additionally, natural hair can shrink up to 50-80% of its length, so you may need to transition longer to achieve the desired hang length[1][2][5>.
What Are the Best Hair Styling Methods During Transition?
Opt for low-manipulation and protective styles such as flat twists, bantu knot outs, pin-ups, and styles that use no heat and keep your ends tucked away. Protective styles like braids, twists, and buns are particularly beneficial as they minimize manipulation and protect your hair from damage. Avoid daily combing and heat styling tools to prevent breakage and damage[1][2][3).
How Can I Prevent Breakage and Shedding During Transition?
To prevent breakage and shedding, it is crucial to identify whether it is shedding or breakage. Breakage is common at the demarcation line where natural and relaxed hair meet. Use protein treatments, deep condition your hair weekly, and pre-poo before shampooing. Regular trims every 4-6 weeks can also help minimize breakage and keep your ends healthy[1][2][4).
What Products Are Best for Transitioning Hair?
Use sulfate-free shampoos, moisturizing conditioners, and deep conditioning treatments to keep your hair hydrated and strong. Experiment with different products to find what works best for your hair, and look for products with natural ingredients that provide moisture and protein. Applying a natural oil on top of a moisturizer can help seal in the moisture[1][2][5).
References- Napturally Curly: FAQ’s About Transitioning to Natural Hair.
- Cécred: How to Transition to Natural Hair: A Step-by-Step Guide.
- Rehairducation: A Brief Guide for Transitioning.
- Napturally Curly: Do’s and Don’ts of Transitioning to Natural Hair.
- Flora & Curl: Transitioning 101: My journey from relaxed to natural.
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